Unshaming is a reverent, embodied, intuitive, process-oriented approach to shadow work, rooted in the belief that you are not a problem to be fixed but brilliance waiting to be remembered.

What does the Unshame Your Brilliance bundle include?

10 private 50-minute 1:1 sessions, an intro video on the Unshaming Process, and space to bring whatever is alive in your system. Sessions are completed within 4 months of purchase.

Is unshaming therapy?

No. It is coaching and somatic shadow work, not therapy or medical care. Ashlie can point you toward a licensed professional for religious trauma or health conditions.

Unshame Your Brilliance

Let's start here

What is shame?

Shame isn't just a feeling. It's a lens. One that distorts how you see yourself and others. An internalized viewpoint that quietly (or not so quietly) runs the show.

You feel like you're too much or not enough, sometimes in the same sentence.
You say "I don't know" when you actually do.
You freeze, wondering, "What will they think of me?"
You hide, self-censor, and reject yourself before others have a chance to.
You water down your needs or apologize for your aliveness.
You try to heal, fix, or change parts of yourself, constantly.

Many of us learned early that it feels safer to shrink than to shine.

The roles you were handed

Release the rules that were never yours

The pulpit, the family, the culture. Someone handed you a script for how a good woman should want, love, dress, pray, earn and take up space. You played the part beautifully. Underneath it, something wild has been waiting.

The Good GirlBe pleasant. Be small. Be agreeable.Whole Woman

PurityYour body is a danger to manage.Desire is sacred

ObedienceSomeone else knows best.Your own authority

The MartyrGive until nothing is left.Receive, fully

ModestyDon't be too much.Take up space

SelflessnessWanting is greedy.Wanting is holy

Touch a rule to release it

There you are.

The path

So, what is Unshaming?

Unshaming is a reverent, embodied, intuitive, process-oriented approach to shadow work. It's rooted in the belief that you're not a problem to be fixed; you are brilliance waiting to be remembered.

Most growth work teaches you to manage or overcome your patterns. Unshaming invites you to meet the deeper intelligence beneath them.

We don't pathologize.
We don't "fix."
We listen. We witness.
We follow the energy of what wants
to be seen, felt, or spoken.

Through a gentle somatic process, we bring light to the parts of you that got pushed into shadow, and allow the gifts within them to emerge.

This work is tender and powerful. It's nonlinear and surprisingly potent. It reveals and heals without needing to analyze everything to death.

What lives in the shadow

The archetypes waiting for you

Every part of you that was shamed into hiding didn't disappear. It went underground, holding a gift. Turn the cards to meet who comes home when shame lets go.

I The Wild OneTurn

The Wild One

Exiled by"Sit still. Be a lady. Calm down."

ecstatic movement, a body that is allowed to feel

II The LoverTurn

The Lover

Exiled by"Wanting is dangerous. Pleasure is suspect."

deep, deep love and pleasure without apology

III The PriestessTurn

The Priestess

Exiled by"Someone else holds the keys to the sacred."

your own direct line to the divine

IV The QueenTurn

The Queen

Exiled by"Wanting money means caring less about people."

sovereignty, receiving, being richly paid for your gifts

V The CreatrixTurn

The Creatrix

Exiled by"Who do you think you are?"

your voice, your art, your full self-expression

Self-preservationShame lives in the body, its needs, comfort and money. Unshaming lets you take up space.

SocialShame lives in belonging and being seen. Unshaming lets you be visible without permission.

One-to-oneShame lives in desire, intensity and intimacy. Unshaming lets you love without holding back.

A bit of my story

I contorted myself for years

I dimmed my truth, softened my opinions, and rationalized others' hurtful behavior to maintain connection and the illusion of safety.

Then a trusted friend ended our relationship without warning, and I was devastated. I realized I'd been over-accommodating, trying to hold onto something that was already gone. Fighting to stay connected with someone who didn't treasure me the way I wanted to be treasured.

But the reality was, I didn't treasure myself.

That experience woke me up to the cost of shame and the ways I dismissed myself. I made myself a promise to never again take my brilliance for granted.

Now I help others do the same.

Is this calling you?

Unshaming is for you if you...

Grew up in a faith or family that made your body, desire or ambition feel dangerous

Battle a loud inner critic or internal pressure to get it "right"

Struggle to feel or stay connected to pleasure

Have played a role (the good girl, the good wife, the strong one) so long you forgot who's underneath

Deal with chronic pain, fatigue, or mysterious symptoms

Are navigating relational conflict or rupture

Are facing a big decision and want support finding clarity around it

Hold shame about things you've never spoken aloud

Want to integrate past experiences and turn them into medicine

An invitation

The Unshame Your Brilliance Bundle

A 10-session 1:1 journey

unfiltered, unapologetic, and free

Release internalized shame, reclaim the parts of you you've hidden or silenced, and finally show up as your whole, powerful self.

10 private 1:1 guided sessions (50 minutes)
Intro video to ground you in the Unshaming Process
Space to bring whatever is alive in your system, from creative blocks to heartbreak, body tension to self-doubt
My full presence, intuitive guidance, and deep reverence for your humanity

Folks regularly pay thousands to work with me 1:1 for a minimum of six months. This is a rare invitation to do the deepest work I offer at a fraction of the cost.

Investment$2,250

Payment plan available

Claim your bundle

You'll receive a confirmation email with your scheduling link and next steps right away. This experience is designed to be immersive, so all sessions are scheduled and completed within 4 months of purchase.

Unshaming is coaching and somatic shadow work, not therapy or medical care. If you are working through religious trauma or a health condition, I'll gladly point you toward a licensed professional to walk alongside this work.